By Susie A. Taylor | Story Strategist | Susie Taylor Marketing | Join the World Referral Network for FREE!
The most important asset you will ever bring into a room is not your resumé, your title, or your connections. Not even your list of accomplishments.
The most important asset you bring to any room is who you are when no one is keeping score.
Education, experience, talent, money, and reputation are important. But they don’t last forever. The economy changes. Technology changes. Careers change. Recognition fades.
But character endures. It determines how we handle everything else that changes.
Character is not revealed in a single act. It is who we choose at every moment. Character is how we conduct and carry ourselves when others aren’t looking: showing up on time, meeting deadlines, following through on commitments.
We don’t announce our character. We show it.
Sure, talent can get you noticed. But character gets you trusted.
Trust, credibility, loyalty, and influence multiply when what we do matches what we say.
Much of what shapes our character happens out of the spotlight. Those nights spent caring for a sick child or family member won’t win you an award. Rebuilding a career won’t garner applause. Honoring a tough commitment may not be popular. Or profitable. But those choices build patience. Responsibility. Courage. Compassion. Character.
Character is not about how we perform when the eyes of the world are on us. It’s how we behave when no one is watching.
Yes, we all stumble in moments of weakness. But people of character don’t let that define who they are. They own up to their mistakes, apologize sincerely, make amends where possible, and learn from their errors. Then they change their behavior.
Leadership and character go hand in hand.
We lead every time our behavior changes what others believe is acceptable. We set the standard by how we give credit to others. We accept responsibility for our mistakes. We remain consistent in our standards whether people are around to notice or not. We lead by treating everyone with dignity and respect.
One moment doesn’t make us an honorable person. But every moment we choose honor above disgrace, we become more honorable.
Think about it: Where are you falling short of the values you claim to embrace? What decision will you make today that edges you closer to closing that gap?
Our choices are votes for the type of person we’re becoming.
What are you voting for?
Elevation Challenge: Choose one quality you want people to associate with you. Put it into action through one decision today.
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